The largest organ in the human body is the skin! Touching all over can feel wonderful. It can be pleasurable to touch and to be touched. The lips and tongue are very sensitive.
Using the mouth all over the body can be sensual and exciting and make sex feel more enjoyable. It is the small bump at the top of the vulva. Some women have orgasm more easily and enjoy intercourse more when the clitoris is touched before or while the penis is inside the vagina. Many women like gentle stroking on the clitoris or around it, but others prefer more pressure.
And of course, a woman can learn to come to orgasm by herself through masturbation self pleasuring. Then, she may be able to tell her partner what feels good. Fantasizing can also help a woman come to orgasm. Many women enjoy the closeness of intercourse without having orgasm. Many women enjoy other ways of lovemaking other than intercourse or penetration.
Other ways to make sex more enjoyable: Spend time getting to know your body on your own e. Stroking, rubbing, light caresses and passionate holding all play a part in lovemaking. Try to talk more with your partner about: A counsellor can talk with you about your feelings, your body and your relationship.
Feeling safe from disease and unwanted pregnancy will help you enjoy sex more. Using a water-based lubricant like Lubafax, K-Y Jelly or Astroglide can help make the vagina more slippery during intercourse. Find other ways to give and receive pleasure e. If you are confused about your sexual orientation there are lots of supports available But sex is more than just intercourse!!
Sex is a way of saying something to another person. When you talk to someone, you often speak by moving more than just your lips. You speak with your eyes, your laugh, your hands Making love with another person can be like that; using your whole body to explore your partner's. Enjoying lovemaking also means taking the time to communicate — saying how you feel, what you want and don't want and what feels good.
When you and your partner learn to talk about and enjoy each other's whole bodies, not just your genitals, you will both be better lovers. They are used to hearing all types of questions. Speak to us if you have questions or concerns. They are available in bookstores or through your public library. If the library doesn't have a copy, the librarian may borrow a copy for you to read. A Signet Book Barbach, L. Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom: Creating physical and emotional health and healing.
The New Our Bodies, Ourselves: A Book By and For Women. Good for all aspects of female sexuality. The Fulfilment of Female Sexuality. Lonnie Garfield Barbach; Good for understanding how to have an orgasm. Hite Report on Female Sexuality. Women Who Love Sex. Good for learning how women feel about sex.