But every once in a while something life changing comes along that deserves a post. I knew when I started making music almost 20 years ago, that there would be a possibility that privacy in my life would be slim to non- existent.
Especially when a lot of the lyrics I write are drawn from real life experiences. A few years back I became intentional on becoming a better person. Gary Chapman in after a breakup. I got so full of myself, I said I finally knew the secret to love…the next woman I date I will marry with this new found knowledge after reading 1 book!
Then, last week I was turned on to this 4 part series on Love, Sex, Dating, and Marriage that not only opened my eyes, but it also broke me down, in tears, on many different levels. Are you the person you need to be to attract and be with the person you desire to be with? She was enamored by him. A few days later she was at home going on and on about this guy and her mother turned to her and said: But it was a defining moment for her. From that day forward she was going to be a woman that a guy like that was looking for.
Game changing moment for her! This one is for the guys. This one is about sex. This is the episode that broke me down because I had a sex addiction myself that I finally faced. The main focus of this video is: It goes deeper than that. If you have any left-over drama or angst with your parents Mom or Dad , your spouse will receive the brunt of that.
Memorize Part 2 of this series 5. Get out of debt. You can get out of debt a LOT quicker as a single person than as a married person. Break Your Bad Habits. Marriage was NOT designed to solve any problems. In marriage, the great things become better and the bad things get worse. There is no evidence at all that living together prepares anyone for marriage. The opposite is true. Couples who live together have a far higher chance of divorce.
This is not a path to happily ever after. Basically, he says you should not be unequally yoked and breaks it down. Get involved ar your local church. This series really made me realize what else I need to be doing. For the most part, I have been exercising most of these on this list for some time now. But this series did prompt me to get on the phone with my Mom, before writing this blog, and hashing out a incident that happened a few years back. I hope this series was able to transform your outlook in your love life and will help you become a better you for the future.
Thank you, Liz, for turning me on to this transorming series. As always, God Bless.